The unbelievable tragedy in Connecticut is wrong on many levels. And on every level, with every issue there are sides to argue. Most of us instinctively pick one. We disagree, or at least we see the issues differently. If you spend a few minutes on the internet, you will find wildly divergent perspectives, charged with intense emotion. Interestingly, the conflict on these issues, especially when the issue is the main connection (rather than the relationship), rarely ends in resolution. More often than not, it ends in greater anger, judgement and separation.
